About Househo

Who am I?  I am a woman evolving within my marriage to a fantastic husband.   After having a 8 year-long affair, I told my husband about it because I could no longer bear the guilt and lies to my husband that I had come to love so dearly.

My husband wiser then I had ever thought him to be, explained to me that his pain about my affair was due to my lies not about the act its self.  Understanding what I wanted and it was ok  with it because he always believed sex and love can be separated.  Believing  that people has the ability to love more than one person intimately.  Surprised by his way of thinking, such openness that I finally was able to breathe easily after so many years. 

My self turmoil of being a cheater came to an end, but my pain was not over. My pain of hurting this dear man required me to promise him, never to lie or deceive him ever again.  By doing this I had made this my personal rule to always be honest and open with whomever I come in contact with. 

That was many years ago, and this blog is my story of our Open marriage together. My personal experiences and the ongoing saga of where this will all lead.  I have no clue what will come of us all.  But I do know that my place is next to my husband’s side and together we will enjoy whatever our lives take us.

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Please note!  The postings within this blog are not made up.  These are my personal and shared experiences with fellow bloggers, lovers and my husband.  I refuse to lie within the confines of my blog and my life.  Any flash backs that I write about, I will try to my fullest ability to remember as much detail as possible.

Again let me reiterate, NOTHING written in this blog is fabricated in any way shape or form.   So follow along as I journey thru my sexual adventures!

6 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. unwantedhusband
    May 03, 2010 @ 18:54:00

    The two of you are so fortunate to be so in love and be able to explore sex with others.

    I envy you and what you have been attain in your relationship.

    Enjoy!

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  2. Polar
    May 13, 2010 @ 15:33:00

    Love your blog.
    I found it yesterday, for the first time. Something really sparked in me to find out further.
    As is my custom with a new to me blog, I will go back as far as possible, to gain the insight, and history to bring me current.
    Yes, I did read every word you have published in this blog, from the beginning.
    You have expressed yourself very clearly. I enjoy your topics, and you candor.
    For me, your rule of a 25 mile dating radius would not work, because the closest big town/city is 50 miles one way, in a state that being “in the same neighborhood” is within 200 miles. We manage.
    I will continue to follow, and look forward to seeing where you go. As a man…my thoughts on Limo… make sure you remain CLEAR to him that He is the extra, and cannot move into the driver’s seat.

    Keep up the great work!
    A new follower,
    Polar

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    • househo
      May 13, 2010 @ 22:54:31

      I’m glad you enjoyed my ramblings.
      Wow! You live in the sticks, awesome!
      Are you in an Open Marriage as well?
      Oh I believe Limo guy knows his place, and it would never go to the Numba 1 spot. Thats a secured slot in my life.

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  3. The_Latin_Guy
    Jun 07, 2010 @ 11:23:14

    Hey… Love your blog.
    I am not in an open marriage, my wife would never accept that. But, hell, I like sex and dont get enough from her… so I am just a crappy cheater. Anyway… keep writing away as I keep reading.
    You can find my Yahoo profile if interested.
    Take care.

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    • househo
      Jun 07, 2010 @ 12:04:49

      Sorry to hear of your predicament. I know of many men and women that cheat on their spouse. Being one of them at one point and time gives me the understanding of why we do it. Also the thrill of it.
      And I am sure you understand my issues of dating a married man as well.

      Reply

  4. ReadersHeaven
    Sep 23, 2010 @ 12:37:43

    Hi, nice to meet you !

    Reply

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