Phone Sex and Sheman
02 Jul 2011 1 Comment
in Relations Tags: BJ, dating, horny, hubby, Masturbation, MFM, MFM party, phone sex, porn, Sheman, webcam
Late last evening I was horny and hubby was asleep after an exhausting day of work. So for the first time in a long time I busted out my vibrator and dusted her off. I started perusing the porn sites and finding it utterly boring. I peeked over at my Yahoo messenger and I notice my favorite bad boy BJ is online. So I drop him quick message and off to the races we went!
I told him I was horny and that he should turn is webcam on for me. He just happened to be in the same mood. So I asked him to masturbate for me. It thrilled me that he was accommodating as he set up his camera and out came the cock.
I found this more exciting than watching porn. Since he could not see me, I had to tell him what I was doing with my vibrator and it was quite erotic. Towards the end he said I should call him to help him finish off. So I thought, what the heck and called him.
Phone sex is old school but overall it can be more erotic and exciting than watching porn. It was quite enjoyable listening to him cum as I watching him on the cam. Even though my orgasms with the toy aren’t the same as the real thing, it did take the edge off things.
We are in the works of planning a date sometime soon. This put a guilty feeling in me as in reference of Sheman. I would have to tell her about this guy and another relatively soon. And I suppose I should clue her in on the MFM party too. LOL Yeah, it be a good idea.
It wasn’t that hard telling her. By the easiest means necessary; via text. Her response was “Please be safe”. I laughed out loud at this because I had not mentioned the party yet. Messaging her back I said “Oh well, then you are going to love this next part!” I informed her of the upcoming party and I think she took it well. Sorta. Her main concern was that I was ending it with her. The jury is still out on that one for me. So I dodged it with a No, I am keeping you abreast of my sexual activities as promised. Then she went into the STD factor of the men. I am discussing this in wild details more with her then I have with Hubby. To him, I just announced that Sassyslut and I are gonna have a MFM party. He gets that its all about having fun. And in doing so there are some risks you take.
It’s funny, I felt obligated to tell her about it because it is common courtesy to do so but if she was going to throw a fit about it. It would not stop me from doing it. Only Hubby has that authority over me.
String of Orgasms
23 Jun 2011 Leave a Comment
in Open marriage Tags: hubby, Masturbation, MFM, orgasm, Sassyslut, Sheman, string of orgasms
Sex for me lately has been more about quality instead of quantity. I stopped masturbating for quite some time now due to the orgasms from a battery operated toy paling in comparison to the physical touch of another person. I have no problems patiently waiting for that moment to arise.
My hard working hubby can be exhausted from a day’s work and with the heat it is increasingly difficult to dredge up the energy to go there. We joke about sweating just thinking about it. So we wait.
Early this morning the time was right. Hubby worked all my lovely parts with his hands and mouth bringing me to extreme excitement that I was literally sweating for more. As he entered me it was apparent I was way too wet for the friction to do its magic. But after a few thrusts it didn’t matter as I being delivered to a nice orgasm. Things progressed in a nice manner that I was truly enjoying it.
And then hubby kicks in the magic he does that sends me over the edge and a hard orgasm hits that has me crowing the morning to all. He does this cute little giggle at me and kicks it into overdrive that launches me to into a string of orgasms that literally blurs my vision to black and my head clouds like I was high. There seems to be a level there that I teeter on but stop and come back down from. It’s a curious place that I believe I would lose myself in total abandonment. I think I would like to venture their just to see if I like it.
This is a total control thing that I am finding I want to try to give up just to see what this sensation is. Of course, I would only do this with Hubby.
In Other news:
Sheman is still in the picture but it has been on the quiet side. She has given me my space on healing. Her job keeps her busy enough to not hound me to get together as much as she did. And come next month will make a year of her being in my life. That’s a major wow factor right there, huh?!
In Wilder news:
One of my siblings found a profile of mine I had on a pervy site that I had deleted months ago. This website doesn’t recycle or refresh their server I guess, which makes for interesting situations for those out there cheating. So yeah, I was told about it via second person and to be honest, I could care less if the family finds out about our Open Marriage.
In Hotter news:
The date has been set for the MFM party!! August 20th, baby! It has been decided that it will be just myself and SassySlut with a group of men. We will be over booking the men, only because odds are they won’t show. But wouldn’t that be wild if they all showed! HAH
What’s up Buttercup?
11 Apr 2011 Leave a Comment
in Open marriage Tags: autism, hubby, MFM, sex, Sheman
So what is going on with me.. been a while since I posted and I should get up to speed on things I suppose.
Life in general has taken over into many family oriented avenues that have actually involved Sheman in some very personal space of mine. As you all know I hold all those at arms length and my family is sacred ground that I do not allow those into. Yet, she is there. Some how in my drug induced haze of it all she was there and I didn’t fight it.
Whats going on with me. Well this stupid back flare up has caused some lovely nerve damage that has now wandered into my ankle and foot. I have swelling and numbness that isn’t painful but extremely annoying. I know I have to take things easy and not cause more damage but stupid me likes to push my limits. So Sheman has been around a lot to help out with my babies.
One thing that she was here for was a defining moment in which my youngest child had become diagnosed with autism. I have an older child that is also autistic which is why I am so very protective of my children. This moment was not something of a shock to my hubby and I but it was more certain when the psychologist said that she was indeed autistic. This opened up old wounds with my mother that I really don’t want to get into here but we will just chalk it up to a very un-supportive moment with her that was a long time battle.
What is so amazing about Sheman is she is fantastic with my kids and my youngest is quite comfortable with her. So I actually quite grateful to have her around. I also think I was able to help her secure a job within the school district that works with autistic children due to her being here and assisting the psychologist with her diagnosis. This is all a possibility but none the less she would be fantastic at it.
So as I am going thru this healing process, the MFM party has pretty much been put on hold until I feel fit for it. Hell, I haven’t even had sex with my hubby in damn near a month now. So I have some making up to do with him first.
I did send him to the latest Fetish Ball that came around this past weekend. He had not been to one and I made him go. It was a Sci-Fi theme and I figured it be up his alley anyways. I wonder if I can get him to do a lil write up of what happened there. He gave me some details and it seemed like an enjoyable time for him.
Let’s party!
04 Mar 2011 Leave a Comment
in Sexuality Tags: Male-Female-Male, MFM, party, plenty of fish, Sassyslut
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So, Sassyslut and I are in the process of planning a party. And being the Ho that I am and the Slut she is, you can be assured this is no run of the mill tea party.
We are planning a MFM party. Yep, that’s right. A Male-Female-Male paaarrr-tay. This all started in one of our raunchy conversations where I pipped up stating we need to have a little shindig of having some hot ass men who are not afraid to get naked and risk the chance of crossing swords. And she agreed! Apparently so did two other bi-gals. So, we got ourselves a party to plan!
I managed to find my two instantly off of Plenty of Fish, but I have to meet them before they can have their Golden Ticket to the festivities. More to come on this. Hopefully, soon too!
Webcaming
21 Jun 2010 Leave a Comment
in Relations Tags: boobs, cock, FMF, huge cock, masturbate, MFM, micro dick, orgasm, webcam
Last night I was chatting with a fellow blogger Bitch on Crack on IM when I was interrupted by BJ wanting some attention. I chatted a bit with both of them when I decided to really mess with BJ. I asked him to activate his web cam and masturbate for me.
He was very game to play so he turned his on and asked if I had one. I don’t but have in the past and well I could get easily in trouble if I have one readily available. So my part in all this was to watch and tell him what to do. I was game for that.
Having such a rotten time with Black Lion, I wanted a man to jump thru my hoops for a change. I instructed him to position the cam on his cock and he did. He unzips and pulls out his cock. It looked a bit small hiding behind the clothes, so I told him to drop trow so that he was totally free.
He was totally erect and types back to me that he likes me telling him what to do. I have him start rubbing himself while I inform Bitch on Crack what I was doing. We had a nice chuckle and I decide to tell BJ that I told a friend what he was doing for me. He immediately said that she could watch as well if she wanted. She was game and IM’ed him. We both watched him stroke his cock and play with his balls all the while having our own little private conversation.
We both thought the head of his cock was small and pointy. Which lead us to recounting past men we were with and their cocks. I have had my share of different types of cocks. One fella was so big that he could not get it in me, I dumped him immediately. Then there was another drop dead gorgeous man with a micro dick. He asked for a condom and I said for what!? Sex with him didn’t happen, LOL.
BJ was happily stroking away with some small words of encouragements from me. I believe Bitch on Crack was just watching and conversing with me. He did interject how hot she was and wanted both of us positioned in front of him while he was doing this. Of course it led to FMF talk and I told him he was dreaming. See I don’t share my bitches with any man other than Hubby and I made sure he knew it. I did ask if he would be game for a MFM situation and he was. So that there is a nice perk in his favor.
Somehow Bitch on Crack and I got onto the subject of women’s breasts. I had told her that they are all different in feel. Some are super soft and have no filling to them. While others are full with lovely nipples and others are big, soft and tiny nipples. I had her now curious about boobs and wanting to examine them. LOL
All the while this conversation is going on, BJ is still stroking away. We mentioned that he was still going strong, even with an audience. Nice to know he has stamina but we all know that stamina isn’t all that if he can’t keep a girl’s attention. There’s a lot more than sticking a dick in a girl and its be nice if more men would pay attention to that!
So here is BJ still going at it. I decided to start talking all nasty to get him to go already. LOL A few lines of deep throating his cock and he was ready to blow. We watched him dump his load on his shirt and it was nice to know that there wasn’t a lot there either! Not a big fan of bucket loads of cum and it looked like he didn’t have that much precum either. Another plus in his favor.
It was well past 2 am and the vicodine I took had kicked in making me a bit sleepy. I said my good nights to everyone and off to bed I went. I snuggled up to Hubby and he started massaging me. I cupped his balls as his cock sprang to life. Its been sometime since we last been together and I immediately went down on him and rubbed my tits all over his cock.
When he entered me I felt some slight soreness of last encounter but the sensations were all there and feeling good. I enjoyed the tit play and his thrusts but an orgasm was not on the horizon. Hubby was so into it he came hard and did not realize I had not achieved mine. I believe the vicodine is an inhibitor for me like alcohol can be. It’s an enjoyable time but no fireworks for me.
Afterwards, we snuggled and I felt frustrated. I woke up feeling frustrated and unsure if Hubby was even aware that I didn’t get mine. I questioned him as to whether or not he noticed anything different last night and he didn’t. I didn’t tell him I did not get mine. But hey.. at least it was enjoyable.
** On a side note**
I am seeing a pattern of downer postings lately. I do apologize for that but I am posting what is truly happening in my life. I don’t claim or make up shit. Everything I write about is true and actual events that took place. I will have to re-count on some past experiences to perk things back up.
