Phone Sex and Sheman
02 Jul 2011 1 Comment
in Relations Tags: BJ, dating, horny, hubby, Masturbation, MFM, MFM party, phone sex, porn, Sheman, webcam
Late last evening I was horny and hubby was asleep after an exhausting day of work. So for the first time in a long time I busted out my vibrator and dusted her off. I started perusing the porn sites and finding it utterly boring. I peeked over at my Yahoo messenger and I notice my favorite bad boy BJ is online. So I drop him quick message and off to the races we went!
I told him I was horny and that he should turn is webcam on for me. He just happened to be in the same mood. So I asked him to masturbate for me. It thrilled me that he was accommodating as he set up his camera and out came the cock.
I found this more exciting than watching porn. Since he could not see me, I had to tell him what I was doing with my vibrator and it was quite erotic. Towards the end he said I should call him to help him finish off. So I thought, what the heck and called him.
Phone sex is old school but overall it can be more erotic and exciting than watching porn. It was quite enjoyable listening to him cum as I watching him on the cam. Even though my orgasms with the toy aren’t the same as the real thing, it did take the edge off things.
We are in the works of planning a date sometime soon. This put a guilty feeling in me as in reference of Sheman. I would have to tell her about this guy and another relatively soon. And I suppose I should clue her in on the MFM party too. LOL Yeah, it be a good idea.
It wasn’t that hard telling her. By the easiest means necessary; via text. Her response was “Please be safe”. I laughed out loud at this because I had not mentioned the party yet. Messaging her back I said “Oh well, then you are going to love this next part!” I informed her of the upcoming party and I think she took it well. Sorta. Her main concern was that I was ending it with her. The jury is still out on that one for me. So I dodged it with a No, I am keeping you abreast of my sexual activities as promised. Then she went into the STD factor of the men. I am discussing this in wild details more with her then I have with Hubby. To him, I just announced that Sassyslut and I are gonna have a MFM party. He gets that its all about having fun. And in doing so there are some risks you take.
It’s funny, I felt obligated to tell her about it because it is common courtesy to do so but if she was going to throw a fit about it. It would not stop me from doing it. Only Hubby has that authority over me.
whore-some urges
21 Jan 2011 Leave a Comment
in Open marriage Tags: cough drop, hardcore fucking, hubby, orgasm, porn, sex, stamina, vibrator
The old whore-some urges are back. As I have my flare ups I tend to flirt and paw at hubby for some quality naked time. LIfe is difficult at times and I find that our schedules are difficult as of late. So.. I have found myself up late at night and extremely horny.
I popped a cough drop in my mouth and beelined it to the bedroom, stripping along the way. Entering the bedroom its dark and I wait a few moments to adjust to the darkness, I see hubby lying on his back breathing deeply in sleep. I’m done stripping and slide into bed. He stirs slightly as I pull the blankets down to his waist and start kissing his chest and nipping his nipples. Trailing my way down his yummy trail to my goal. All the while he is slowly waking and realizing what I am doing. He finds his soft cock in my mouth and doesn’t stop me.
Within a few moments I have him hard and sucking his breath as I lightly blow on his cock giving him the hot/cold sensation he so loves. See I grabbed this tasty treat to prolong his ejaculation because Momma wanted a good long fuck. I continued to suck his cock and begun to deep throat him until the cough drop disappeared. Yum!
I assumed my favorite position of being on top as his thick cock eased into me I let out a little shiver of anticipation. From here it was a blur of orgasmic tremors that shook me from one peak to another until I begged to be fucked.
The next moments I remember were in doggy position as he began to piston in and out of me so fast and hard I was squealing in delight. It was amazing the stamina my honey has as he fucks me so hard and fast. I can’t get enough of it. When we both came it was like we were melded so closely that I did not want it to end.
This happened several days ago, the next evening I went in for seconds. Last evening I gave the poor man a break and watched some porn and played with my toy. It was not the same but did it job. Hubby wanted his fun early morning but I denied him. I see another late night visit in his very near future happening.
Good Vibrations
24 Jun 2010 Leave a Comment
in Sexuality Tags: desensitize, porn, vibrating cock ring, vibrating tongue ring, vibrator, vibrator addiction
My hubby was the one that introduced me to vibrators. Quite early in our relationship in fact. I was comfortable with him, and willing to experiment. And my man like to supply me with the toys.
This was around the time frame with porn was on VHS; DVD’s and Internet was just blooming. I would burn thru the VHS tapes while playing with my toys. It became my time of exploring that I prefered to do solo. Exploring my orgasm became a nightly ritual for me. So much so that I became addicted to my toys.
Addiction to your sex toys can really kill the feelings for human intercourse. De-sensitizing you from reaching an orgasm by making you a slave to the vibe. I remember telling my mother that my man bought me a toy and that I really liked it. She warned me that I would have to be careful or I would be come addicted to the vibe. Boy was she right!!
I didn’t want to have sex with my man. Or anyone! I wanted my toy and porn. This was no good. Realizing this I had to refrain from playing with my toy, it took several days to desensitize my clit to be able to feel my man’s touch.
Over the years I have gone thru several toys, busting each one with over use. Hubby was always nice enough to replace them when that happened.
Double A batteries are a coveted item in our home. It’s known that Momma does not like to share them. Its messed up when the majority of kiddie toys use these batteries. GRRRR!
Not to long ago, I decided to incorporate vibrating toys into our play time. Vibrating cock rings and vibrating tongue rings were interesting. Different and at times uncomfortable. The cock ring was only fun to play with if we were doing doggy style. That toy was phased out because it’s like putting on a condom in mid stream. A killjoy.
The tongue ring was just as tricky. The fear of swallowing it was always present and the vibration on your tongue was painful after a bit. This toy lasted a few times then that too was phased out. It had a limited usage time anyhow. So many hours and you would have to buy another one. Depending on your oral ability, this would last two or three uses tops.
I have realized that I have veered away from the vibrator in daily ritual to where I would want the real thing instead. But when the period hits, well that’s a different story. I would then crave that bad boy constantly.
Sometimes a toy is just what the doctor order!
House call
08 May 2010 Leave a Comment
in Relations Tags: 69, ass, attraction, beer, dog, doggy style, licking, oral sex, porn, sex, shower, stoner
Limo guy has now made two points of calling me instead of texting, just to hear my voice. Super cute, although his voice is soothing to my ears, he has a very soft-spoken tone that at times I cannot understand. So I prefer texting with him.
The first call wandered into when are we going to meet, he wanted to meet this weekend. I was game and readily agreed to meet. Our next call revolved around me wanting to be in a bed with him. He then invited me to his house. I was taken back on this offer since it was stated no woman will enter his domain. Yet, here is my invitation, hmm…
So as I traveled there, I realised something. I’m fucking traveling for dick. God dammit! He made me break a rule. But I will have to really look that over. I do not want to travel to over a half hour to get to anyone and he fell in the realms of 15 minute drive. So, ok maybe a bit of a jog but still well within my boundary. Right?
I get there an it’s not what I expected. Not that I had any expectations of a single man’s home. The house was quite run down but cozy enough. He has a very VERY friendly dog that decided I was fresh meat. LOL I did not mind the dog at all, just didn’t want to be eaten alive. Turned out he was a big lover and totally harmless. So I was relaxed enough around him to enjoy my time with Limo guy.
Getting it on with him happened fairly quickly and I enjoyed the oral he did but he came far to quickly for my taste. I refused to get dressed while he did. He went on a beer run while I was left alone with poochie and rifling thru channels on his tv. Oddly enough the shows catching my attention was the porn. Lonely lawyers, tiger wood’s wood, and lesbian sluts: all pay per view.. I was tempted but didn’t choose any.
Limo guy came back with beer, handed me one and parked his ass in a chair. While his dog hung out on the bed with me. Periodically licking me all over since I had some tasty lotion on. I had then mentioned that I was getting more action from the dog then him. He laughed but I was serious.
We started really talking then. He being a single guy and well.. a stoner. We really don’t have a whole lotta things in common. Yet, I’m attracted to him. That I don’t get. I am hoping he understands this because I really love my life with my husband and the level of intellect I have with him is fantastic. With Limo guy I feel its more fluff, something that is great to hang out with be totally goofy and not have to have deep brainy conversations.
After a beer or two, and having enough of the dog licking off all my lotion I decided I needed to wash off. And I made Limo guy do it. He has a shower with a detachable shower head with multiple selections on it to play with. I thought, niiiicce! Something to play with at a later date! I took one of his loofas and soaped up myself while he hosed me down. It was really apparent that he was a bit nervous or unsure of what to do. But he got the job done.
We were back in bed and under the sheets when I got on top of him for round two. I like round two. It’s more exciting and fulfilling. I straddled his face as he licked me and even ventured towards my ass which I totally love! Him doing this made me realise he is testing the waters and seeing what I will reject or go nuts for. So far, I’m liking it. He moved back to my clit while then inserting a finger in my ass. Again I was very okay with it and was really enjoying it.
He then pops up and grabs my hips and keeps me in doggy style position as he enters me from behind. I am in heaven. Something so primal about being taken this way. Like most animals do in this fashion, it just plain hot for me. After a good time frame of this position I found myself begging to suck his cock. He laid down on the bed while I straddled his face and went to work on his cock. He again went for my ass with a finger and worked my clit with his mouth as I tried to concentrate as much as possible on his cock. I was really enjoying this and came on his face.
He then rolled me over on to my back and entered me hard. Throwing my legs over his shoulders and placing his hands on my throat as he pressed harder this time. I was repeating YES! More!! and he let go of my throat to fuck me harder.
He did not come the second time and ended up flopping on me, telling me that I was too much for him. I know I am but he has such potential. I will continue to see where I can take him though. Who knows, I may be able to get rougher sex out of him!
We ended the night with him walking me to my car and made out a bit more. I asked what did he enjoy the most and he said the blow job. Of course. He asked what I enjoyed the most and I said the dog. LOL
He has a great sense of humor though, so that’s one thing we have in common. And who cares, I do feel a bit like I am slumming but he is sweet, kind and making a decent living on his own. I am very impressed with that and I genuinely like him, he is adorable.
