whore-some urges

The old whore-some urges are back.  As I have my flare ups I tend to flirt and paw at hubby for some quality naked time.  LIfe is difficult at times and I find that our schedules are difficult as of late.  So.. I have found myself up late at night and extremely horny.

I popped a cough drop in my mouth and beelined it to the bedroom, stripping along the way.  Entering the bedroom its dark and I wait a few moments to adjust to the darkness, I see hubby lying on his back breathing deeply in sleep. I’m done stripping and slide into bed. He stirs slightly as I pull the blankets down to his waist and start kissing his chest and nipping his nipples.  Trailing my way down his yummy trail to my goal.  All the while he is slowly waking and realizing what I am doing.  He finds his soft cock in my mouth and doesn’t stop me.

Within a few moments I have him hard and sucking his breath as I lightly blow  on his cock giving him the hot/cold sensation he so loves.  See I grabbed this tasty treat to prolong his ejaculation because Momma wanted a good long fuck.  I continued to suck his cock and begun to deep throat him until the cough drop disappeared.  Yum!

I assumed my favorite position of being on top as his thick cock eased into me I let out a little shiver of anticipation.  From here it was a blur of orgasmic tremors that shook me from one peak to another until I begged to be fucked. 

The next moments I remember were in doggy position as he began to piston in and out of me so fast and hard I was squealing in delight. It was amazing the stamina my honey has as he fucks me so hard and fast. I can’t get enough of it.  When we both came it was like we were melded so closely that I did not want it to end.

This happened several days ago, the next evening I went in for seconds.  Last evening I gave the poor man a break and watched some porn and played with my toy.  It was not the same but did it job.  Hubby wanted his fun early morning but I denied him.  I see another late night visit in his very near future happening.

A new place to put Diamonds?!

Say it isn’t so!

Win a 24K Gold, Diamond-Studded Vibrator from JimmyJane!

You mean this lil beauty?!

Nuthin but the best for my lil puss

And all I gotta do is sign up for one of their newsletters. 

Sweet! I can do that!
 
“I just love finding new ways to wear diamonds!” ~ Marilyn Monroe
 
FYI, Folks ~~theres a time restraint!!
You got till the end of August to try to win it.  Or buy one. 
Now that be a stocking stuffer! Woo whoo!
 
Oh and I double checked to make sure it is not.  And I repeat.. NOT gold-plated.  God forbid I burn off the gold platting within the month.    And!! I do love the life time replaceable motor on this puppy. 
Still, if I don’t win it.  I will be in need of a Sugar Daddy or Momma who feels the strongest need to supply me with this lovely toy.

Morning Sex

Its time to date again.   I am ready.   I was bitchy towards hubby the last two days and I am realizing I need to get my strange on. 

So my husband loves morning sex.  Me, not so much.  In fact, it’s the last on my list.  I won’t say I am never in the mood at 5 am in the morning cause there were moments that I have been but over all I am not a fan of it. 

Morning sex was the main sexual contact we had in the beginning of our relationship.  It kinda just flowed into it.  We would do it all the time but once we settled into a mode, morning sex became the norm.

And with that came my fake orgasms.   Lemme explain this part.  I am a night owl, and with that I can be horny from the time frames of 11 am to 3am.  BUT that is if I am up by 9am.  So I need a few hours to de-grog and get in the groove of the day.   Hubby is Mr. Roll outta bed with sunshine spouting out his ass, while I am not.   His bed time is 11pm the latest while I am up at the wee hours of 2 am.  So ya see our dilemma?  He likes to have his morning wood needs met and I want my sleep.

In the beginning I caved and gave him his morning sex.  He would happily dump his load in me while I would grumble back to sleep feeling unsatisfied.  See he needs no help getting it up a this time frame and is raring to go but I am not even remotely horny enough to even want it.  So he has to make tons of effort to get me there.  This never happens and I would end up with a dick forcing its way into dry me.

I’ve had several yeast infections from some tearing due to not being lubricated  and we have used lube before but finally I just stopped it.  It was so unfair for me to be faking something that I really liked and so unfair for him to think he was pleasuring me.  So I refuse to fake it any longer.

Morning sex is not my thing, sure I will let him have it but I’m not going to fake an orgasm while he gets his.  I absolutely refuse to any longer.

I will say that one time he had been working an over night job and I was missing him.  He wanted sex but time frames were off.  I had told him to just take it.

He did.  I am sleeping and he came into the bedroom and grabbed me.  In my sleep I was flailing about and turned over onto my stomach when he grabbed my hips and pulled me to him.  I knew it was him and he took me, right then and there.  I was floored by what he did.  It was like a planned rape but I had no clue it was coming.  I found it hot and exciting. 

I brought that up a few times later on, but he probably won’t try it again.  I told him it was awesome, especially me trying to fight him off.  But he still got what he wanted.  It was very cool.

Anyways, back to my faking during morning sex.  I could have made my distaste known so many years ago.  But I didn’t realize I didn’t like morning sex until we were 5 years into our relationship and marriage.  It felt horrid not feeling the right amount of adoration and attraction instead of being someone’s cum dumpster.  It felt very detached and cold to me.  This was part of my reasoning behind my cheating.   I knew I could cum by my own hand and I wanted someone else to make me cum.  I didn’t want my life to be where my vibrator was my lover that made my toes curled.  It just felt so wrong and unsatisfying.

So sex outside my marriage is always going to be a necessity.  I will go thru down periods where he is the only one I want touching me, but I know it doesn’t last long.   And please do not think the man cannot make me cum because he can.  He can now bring it on in waves and its fantastic.  Just not in the mornings, is all.

Good Vibrations

My hubby was the one that introduced me to vibrators.  Quite early in our relationship in fact.  I was comfortable with him, and willing to experiment.  And my man like to supply me with the toys.

This was around the time frame with porn was on VHS; DVD’s and Internet was just blooming.  I would burn thru the VHS tapes while playing with my toys.  It became my time of exploring that I prefered to do solo.  Exploring my orgasm became a nightly ritual for me.   So much so that I became addicted to my toys.   

Addiction to your sex toys can really kill the feelings for human intercourse.  De-sensitizing you from reaching an orgasm by making you a slave to the vibe.  I remember telling my mother that my man bought me a toy and that  I really liked it.  She warned me that I would have to be careful or I would be come addicted to the vibe.  Boy was she right!!

I didn’t want to have sex with my man.  Or anyone!  I wanted my toy and porn.   This was no good.  Realizing this I had to refrain from playing with my toy, it took several days to desensitize my clit to be able to feel my man’s touch. 

Over the years I have gone thru several toys, busting each one with over use.  Hubby was always nice enough to replace them when that happened.

Double A batteries are a coveted item in our home.  It’s known that Momma does not like to share them.  Its messed up when the majority of kiddie toys use these batteries. GRRRR!

Not to long ago, I decided to incorporate vibrating toys into our play time.  Vibrating cock rings and vibrating tongue rings were interesting.  Different and at times uncomfortable.  The cock ring was only fun to play with if we were doing doggy style.  That toy was phased out because it’s like putting on a condom in mid stream.  A killjoy.

The tongue ring was just as tricky.  The fear of swallowing it was always present and the vibration on your tongue was painful after a bit.  This toy lasted a few times then that too was phased out.  It had a limited usage time anyhow.  So many hours and you would have to buy another one.   Depending on your oral ability, this would last two or three uses tops.

I have realized that I have veered away from the vibrator in daily ritual to where I would want the real thing instead.  But when the period hits, well that’s a different story.  I would then crave that bad boy constantly. 

Sometimes a toy is just what the doctor order!

Stranger Danger

A fellow blogger and good friend of mine, Sassy Slut  came over for lunch today.   I love this gal she makes me laugh so hard I wanna pee my pants at times.  Any time she is around it’s always a good time. 

We had set up a playdate to sex up the hubby, its been quite a long time since he had some action that we decided to have a little fun with him.   I believe his last threesome was around November of last year.  So yeah, he was over due for some extra loving.

Whenever there is a new girl to the equation or I am the new girl in the equation there is the getting to know you awkwardness to get over.  But hubby and I so laid back and relaxed that we tend to do a lot of joking and laughing.  Breaks down barriers quickly and everyone feels at ease. 

While we were playing with hubby we found that he was having a little problem achieving an erection and that was fine.  Switching gears, Sassy Slut and I decided some pictures would be appropriate and here is one lovely shot to share!
Booby Kisses I love her boobs! Full and great nipples! Just like mine but way bigger. I am of course jealous of the size of them. Made mine appear tiny compared to hers. Of course anyone readers out there willing to donate a boob job for me, I would gladly show them off on here for you.

Once the photo shoot was over, we went back to enjoying one another and I gotta say Sassy Slut has some nice oral skills!
I then played with her and enjoyed a nice tasty clit while hubby mauled Sassy Slut ‘s boobs. Again hubby was unable to get fully erect and so I made him, lay down while we both gave him head. It was getting a bit frustrating for him to get his cock-up and so I suggest we get our toys. He has his cock toy and I have my lovely vibrator that is so much fun.
I believe Sassy Slut was really liking my toy when hubby lets me know his toy worked for him when he entered me from behind.
I continued to play with Sassy Slut ‘s clit while hubby started to get into his groove. But I made the mistake of stopping him before he really got his cock good and hard. I wanted to watch him fuck my friend while I played with my toy. Sadly it was short-lived as he lost his erection yet again and by that time frame we realized playtime was over due to life getting in the way.
Overall I enjoyed our time and hope to do this again soon. Hubby apparently needs frequent exposure so that he doesn’t have Stranger Danger. And although he was frustrated he still enjoyed it and that’s what really counts.

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